In order to really love someone you must love him as though he was going to die tomorrow. ~Arabian Proverb
How
do we show the people we love that we love them? Do we passionately
appreciate them each day as though it is the last, reminding ourselves
it very well may be? Or do we just... accept that they're there,
possibly even take advantage of that fact or expect that things will
forever be as they are?
To love from the heart, to love
passionately, the people in our lives is a calling. To love them as
though either YOU or THEY were going to die and this moment, this second
might be the last... that this hello or goodbye or I love you might be
the last... that is to show them how much they are loved.
People
need to know they are loved... whether they are across the table or
across many miles or even many countries away, they need to know they
are loved.
I try to make it a point in my own life to
share with people the appreciation, love, respect, and honor I have for
them every time I think of it. I never know whether I will ever see or
hear from them again, because I don't know God's plans for their life...
or for mine, for that matter... in a deep enough way that I can know
that I know I will see them again tomorrow. That I will hear their voice
or feel their hug or get a reply on email from them tomorrow... or ever
again.
Sometimes it doesn't take a death for this to happen.
People drift apart for many reasons... siblings, parents and children,
old friends, former roommates... people drift apart. And yes, people
die. We all will at some point, like it or not. And only God truly knows
the moment He will take each of us... it is a rare thing to know ahead
of time the precise moment. I know of only one person who did, and they
were correct.
So I challenge you... love
the people in your life deeply, and love them as if they will die
tomorrow. Or as if YOU will. Either could be true. God has His eye on
all of us and knows what we all need... who we all need... when we will
all part ways in whatever means it will happen. HE is the only true
permanence in life... and HE is LOVE.
We all need love. It is a human essential.
How are we showing it??
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